While reading Ralph Waldo Emerson's "Self Reliance," I came across an interesting passage which parallels to a phenomenon occurring at New Trier: "But man postpones or remembers; he does not live in the present, but with reverted eye laments the past, or, heedless of the riches that surround him, stands on tiptoe to foresee the future. He cannot be happy and strong until he too lives with nature in the present, above time" (29).
This concept of living in the present is very foreign New Trier students. We are constantly reliving our mistakes of the past or thinking about the future. New Trier's structure and expectations make it rather difficult not to. We feel the pressure to exceed at standardized tests like the ACT/SAT, make the best grades, and be the most "involved." All so we can get into a "good school." This makes it feel as if we are determining our future by what course of action we take in high school. Thus is it even possible to ultimately "live with nature in the present?"
As we've been discussing in class, we must not take Emerson's arguments as literal claims, but rather except them as extremes to portray a message more effectively. We must do the same with the connotations of this passage. In Emerson's age, it was unthinkable to conceive that any human being could be as over scheduled and overachieving as our present generation is. Therefore, since Emerson was not writing for this generation as his audience, we must take his argument as more of a guideline than a rule. Of course it is not possible with the expectations and pressure put on us to live completely in the present. However it is important to realize our present. Despite our busy schedules, we must stop occasionally to "smell the roses." After all, "nothing can bring you peace but yourself"(38)-a claim which remains a universal truth to all generations.